Tale of pink sea sails

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CHARTERED ACCOUNTANT STUDENT !!!

DANCER , MUSIC AND FASHION LOVER & OCCASIONALLY A  BADMINTON PLAYER. LOVE TO READ NOVELS (ESPECIALLY FICTION) , ANCHORING AND OF COURSE BLOGGING :)


I'm a girl sailing away in search of tomorrow on every shore with girly pink sails learning to develop problem solving skills, battling crazy uncontrollable winds & rough waves .People might laugh at my pink sails but I'm determined to make it stylish and girly. They might treat me just like a book . If the cover doesn't catch the eyes they might refuse to read what is inside me but I refuse to be anchored at the harbour. Adventure and exploring are what I need. It's called the tale of pink sea sails. 


Sunday, 16 March 2014

HASTHA'S SCRAPBOOK !!! : TALE OF PINK SEA SAILS !!!SAFFRON - Sacrifice...

HASTHA'S SCRAPBOOK !!! :
TALE OF PINK SEASAILS !!!

SAFFRON - Sacrifice...
: TALE OF PINK SEA SAI LS !!! SAFFRON - Sacrifice WHITE – Pure GREEN – Kindness BLUE – Loyalty RED – warning PINK -...

TALE OF PINK SEA SAILS !!!


SAFFRON - Sacrifice
WHITE – Pure
GREEN – Kindness
BLUE – Loyalty
RED – warning
PINK - ??????????

Well .... what does the colour pink stand for ? Of course every time we see something in pink we remember “GIRLS” “WOMEN”!!! So is this the reason pink is described as such a weak & girly colour?

I have a pink phone panel , pink wallet , pink lip gloss , pink headphones , pink shoes , pink handbag , most of my outfits are pink , my nails are painted pink , the walls of my room are painted pink ...... oh my !!! its just pink all over . But why should this mean I'm weak & girly ?! Is it because 'pink' stands for 'women' the weaklings of the society?

Since ancient times women have always been ranked as second-rate citizens world wide . Even developed countries are not free from such a presumption. It sometimes makes me wonder if equality & respect for women are only limited to books. Are our women really free to express their views ? Are they treated in par with men ? No . Not yet .

We live in a men-dominated society where we want to limit our women to cooking , household & baby care. The only women respected are the women who allow their strings to be pulled like a puppet or the ones who allow themselves to be treated like a programmable robot with no say to control.If a girl tries to remain independent and says that she cannot give up her life and career she is considered as a dominating brat , demanding & selfish. By the end of the day it's the woman who has to step into the man's shoes.

How many countries have had a woman president ? How many countries have had women who have made it to the top in the corporate or business world ? Instead we still notice an increase in rape & suicide cases among women , dowry system , abortion of girl child & child marriage just to get rid off the girl who is considered as a major burden to the family.

The empowerment of women can only begin with their participation in different spheres of life. Our sons grow up to become doctors , engineers or work for multinational companies but why are our daughters limited to basic degrees & marriage ? After all these decades women have only been fighting for equal rights , equal pay & an equal position. Women need economical independence for which education is the only solution.

I'm a girl sailing away in search of tomorrow on every shore with girly pink sails learning to develop problem solving skills, battling uncontrollable winds & rough waves .People might laugh at my pink sails but I'm determined to make it stylish and girly. They might treat me just like a book . If the cover doesn't catch the eyes they might refuse to read what is inside me but I refuse to be anchored at the harbour. Adventure and exploring are what I need .
And that is exactly what is behind “THE TALE OF PINK SEA SAILS!!! “








Sunday, 2 March 2014

HASTHA'S SCRAPBOOK !!!: THE BUSY SCHEDULE COMBINED WITH THE‘ME ATTITUDE’I ...

HASTHA'S SCRAPBOOK !!!: THE BUSY SCHEDULE COMBINED WITH THE‘ME ATTITUDE’I ...: THE BUSY SCHEDULE COMBINED WITH THE ‘ME ATTITUDE’ I used to ask myself “why am I a huge fan of Taylor Swift?”… Of course certain lines f...
THE BUSY SCHEDULE COMBINED WITH THE ‘ME ATTITUDE’
I used to ask myself “why am I a huge fan of Taylor Swift?”… Of course certain lines from her songs inspire me & I can relate them to situations in my life. But in a different way.
“Someday I’ll be living in a big old city, why you gotta be so mean? “
“A simple complication, mis-communication lead to fall out “
“You held your pride like you should have held me “
“This is looking like a contest on who can act like they care less”.

Every time I listen to these lines I know for sure why most of us don’t share a good relation with our families, friends, relatives & neighbours

All of us are guilty in one way or the other for not keeping in better touch with our near & dear ones. Have you ever used the term “I’m too busy” to avoid your friend or a family member? Or are you really busy? Or is it just a code word that you use because you want to get rid of that other person from your life without hurting his/her feelings? A lot of friendships & relationships have broken due to lack of communications.

The present day technology has given us so many ways to communicate with a person or to just stop by & say “hey how you doing? “ . We have chosen these social networking sites as means to show our anger, hatred & jealousy. Ignore the other person’s text messages; do not confirm his/her request. Block, ‘unfriend’ your friend or family member… instead why don’t you be honest & say “when you do this/that it bothers me “. In the present day most of our lives are piled up with our own work & studies which can be stressful. Once again why can’t you be honest “I have work/exams today … can we reschedule something for this date/time? “. In this scenario the whole idea of “I’m too busy” seems like a flimsy excuse as each person is busy in his/her own way & it’s just a matter of priorities.

No matter how old you are or where you are people pick on you, they are mean to you or ignore you just because you are different or because they live in bigger cities or developed countries now, they feel that they need to block you out or they feel that they don’t want to say ‘hi’ to you anymore because they think need their time for people better than you. For a person like me it’s kind of tough & that’s when I feel like asking “someday even I’ll be living in a big old city, why do you have to be so mean to me or why do you want to ignore me?”

Just because simple complications & mis communications have kept us apart we hold our pride like we should hold on to each other & almost every day we play contests on who can act like they care less.  Instead of complaining that my brother/sister, my cousin, my friend or my partner doesn't understand my feelings, why don’t you tell him/her how you feel about it? In the end it would make the world a better place to live in.  All you have to do is give up the 
‘ME ATTITUDE’.

KHALIL GIBRAN QUOTES:
No matter how busy a man is, he is never too busy to stop by & talk about how busy he is!!
  

  signing off     HASTHA NARAYAN :)