FAILURE IS THE STEPPING STONE TO
SUCCESS SUICIDE ?????!!!!!
|I'M TIRED OF BEING THE ONE WHO CHEERS UP PEOPLE BECAUSE WHEN I'M IN NEED OF SOMEONE THERE IS NOBODY TO MAKE ME FEEL BETTER ...|
Every morning you get up, you sit at the porch with the day’s newspaper and your cup of tea; don’t you read at least one headline in bold letters that has the word ‘SUICIDE’? You get back home late in the evening exhausted with the day’s work , you relax on the couch , pick up the television remote , switch channels until u reach a news channel. Once again you see that somebody has either hanged themselves, burnt themselves alive or poisoned themselves. Exactly! Looks like the increasing number makes us realize that ‘suicide’ has become a common and permanent solution to a temporary problem.
But what is the reason? Psychologists say it is a mental disorder or depression that arises when you upset yourself too much. But what is the reason to upset you? Failure in exams? Failure in love? Family problems? Friendship problems? You feel like you are nothing? There are people who make you feel that you don’t deserve to get what you want? & above all……. facebook posts? Hmm… your life itself is a problem and ending it would mean ending all your problems. Now that’s the attitude of the present generation. Little do they know that life is always the way we see it. Simple and complicated at the same time.
If you have failed in your exams, life always gives you a second chance to correct your mistakes & try again provided you don’t end it. Or if you don’t want the second chance; try something new. Not all famous personalities or achievers were rank holders at school or college. Skills and talents vary from person to person. Bill Gates - "I failed in some subjects in exam, but my friend passed in all. Now he is an engineer in Microsoft and I am the owner of Microsoft."
If somebody doesn’t love you back think about those other people who actually love & care for you. When you kill yourself you fail those people who promised to never fail you in life. Don’t you think this is an act of injustice you do to yourself and the world? You can’t make someone love you but be someone who can be loved.
If you feel that people are using mean words against you & you can’t ask them to shut up, instead of using a rope, a knife, a bottle of poison or standing on the edge of a building why don’t you consider using your earphones to plug your ears. Your earphones help you to hear words & voices that will definitely brighten your mood.
If you feel that you did not get a ‘thumbs up’ on facebook… Ask yourself, "why do you need one?" You don’t need facebook to tell you that you are beautiful. All you have to do is look at yourself in the mirror on the wall. If somebody points out that you are lame … Ask him/her if he/she knows more about you than you know about yourself?
Positive attitude, self – confidence, hard work & perseverance are the key solutions. Remember to spend some time listing out your positive qualities. Don’t worry about the negatives because there are people out there already listing them for you. You fail, fall, cry , work hard , succeed & smile… so that some day in the future you would look back & actually say that “ Failure is the stepping stone to
suicide success “ .
If you hate your life. Change your way of living.
LIFE IS MEANT FOR LIVING NOT JUST SURVIVING!!!